bank loan.... about half of what u want actually.
so 1 million dollars
the bank see it worth $800,000
and loan u 80% so about $640,000
ah hell. another 360 thousand dollars to go.
CPF... hmmm.... still not enough...
dad friends were complaining about how their wife slacks a lot, nvr do housework and stuff....

housework.... how about we roll dice first then see who do what then some whining, and negotiation. -I do this and this and this, u sweep the floor only, and tonight we do IT my way.

then go problem with how things should be done.
eg: the toothpaste. press from bottom or anyhow press the tube to get the tooth paste out...

so u want a very "manly" guy in the house.... oh... the animal kingdom is called the alpha lion, and everything must be done to suit him.... even simple things.... it leaves people with totally no breathing space. i can't stand that.

for small things, IF the goal is the same, and the two methods have little in difference, then heck care lah... get the job done can liao. if got big difference, like one method take 5 mins, the other method take 1hr, no side effects, same results, then rushing for time, then use the 5 min method lah....

then the reason the guy use to complain abt the wife is -"i cannot stand the sight of it"
in chi is "wo kan bu shun yan" [ direct translation: i see no flow eye... means it is an eyesore]
good grief.... if u can't stand their personnel little habits, then dun get maried in the first place....
"can change or not" -wah this line is for retards. when 2 decades of ur life had past, the habits hard to change liao lor. it is ur character le. the best is to have no expectation, or demand from others lah, unless got great effect, consequences.

worst of all, that 'guy' said tat infront of the wife.... not bad leh. tool box, screw driver?
be tactful when complaining..... in a cheerful tone he should say "see darling, i did a lot le"
then when at home then he can start his frenzy arguement if he wants to....

"he/she is like that one lah...relax" this line can be use when u know some1 for abt a year+ i think.

maybe i should have this t-shirt witht this design: "unless i freak out, then u can start freaking out"

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